A person to call when things gets rough and a plan of action for the days where you need to be refueled in the human ways that aren’t easily bought or attained。

一个值得信赖的人：当遇到困难时可以给对方打电话;当你需要加油打气时，可以帮你制定行动计划;这些都是不容易买到或得到的。

A savings account with at least a month or so of living expenses. This might sound unattainable if finances aren’t looking great right now but it’s more than crucial to make it work somehow. The importance of this usually isn’t recognized until it’s the reason you’re eating or not out on the street one day after you lose your job。

一个至少留下一个月左右的生活费用的银行账户。如果财政状况不理想，这听起来很难做到。但是用某种方式来实现它至关重要。平时通常不会意识到它的重要性，但是当有一天你失去工作后，那你就会意识到这有多重要了：至少这能保证你有饭吃，也不至于露宿街头。

Clothing that will serve you in appropriate circumstances– funerals, weddings, work. A winter jacket, a rain coat. Not just things that are flimsy and unpractical, though they have their place and time as well. Because the last thing you want to do on the day of the wake of someone you deeply cared about is worry about what you are going to wear。

在适当的环境下可以穿的衣服——葬礼、婚礼、工作时。冬天的夹克、雨衣。不要光有易坏和不实用的东西，虽然在某一时刻某一场所也需要它们。因为在你给深深牵挂的人守夜那天，你最不想做的事情就是担心自己该穿什么。